Maa || the sweetest word in the universe.

 

"FOOD FOOD JUNCTION"

Maa ||  the sweetest word in the universe. 

Lt: Mrs. Mitali Sharma.

Author: Rana Sharma.

Respected viewers,

                              Again a warm welcome again to all of you in a new post today's post is  dedicated to my mother and i will just narrate  about my beloved mother  how she was and just left her dream and passion for me. Its my humble request to all the viewers is that please pardon me for my writing because actually i'm not a writer, so please  excuse me for my grammatical  mistakes.

 Myself Rana and welcome to the smallest blog named " FOOD FOOD JUNCTION" remembering my mother .

As belonging to a Bengali family my mother was a fantastic cook and i'm the only child so its my fortune and i'm lucky enough to take birth in such a family. My mother treats me like a king she loves me the most if i just told her that if  i can had a pizza in the dinner it might be 11:00 pm with in half an hour it is served.

She was also a good "Rabindra Sangeet" singer i remembered that when my mother used to practice with her harmonium i just looked at her face and sit quietly in the bed.

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Now, my mother is not with me she passed away o (18/04/2021) at 6:00 am. So, it is her dream to write a blog now i'm just enacting and trying to fulfill her dream my mother is very creative person i must tell that. She always conveys me 'respect cannot be borrow, you have to earn respect' from people this is word she taught me. Money can buy the necessities and all luxuries in our life but cannot earn or gain  respect from others.

I am also a kidney transplant patient and can't eat any street food so now my father cooks for me and that the golden bengali home made recipe i'll share it on my next post.

Wish i could get my mother back as my daughter. Just sharing an experience with all of you how my grand mother was strict to my mother in the matter of her singing.

"Mitali Mukherjee" (my mother) a cute baby girl child was born in a wealthy family where she is getting all the luxurious that a child need , day by day the girl was growing up  took admission in school as well as in the singing classes.  Now time are passing as the child is also shining in her singing career one after one she is winning the competitions. As though her mother (my grandmother) was very strict with her study as well as singing to, one day whats happened she wakes up each & every day at 4:30  in the morning and completes her rewaj but one day  what happen she forget to wake up and when her eyes open it was 7:00 in the morning , her mother  did't scold or done nothing just politely said that from today you don't have to any rewaj just quit it so the girl burst out and start crying because she knew her mother whats she says she do it. After five to six hours of convincing then she agree only at one condition, rewaj must not skipped it should be happened morning sharp at 4:30 am. 

Slowly slowly as the time passes the cute baby girl is now at her teenage she regularly use to sing in her schools, local functions and getting appreciation but then also she is humble and down to earth. She did not knew how to discriminate as she belongs to a bramhin family. Suddenly a twist is going to happen in her life which she doesn't yet think it at all , her mother dies  due to a chronic disease. Her friend , philosopher , guide her mother goes far away and her dreams to become a successful is also seems to going far away from her.

After marriage again my mother started singing but the destiny, all people wants to be happy its all about destiny. That only happens with my mother, when i was (4+) it was 1995 i had a major operation "astyocytoma" (brain tumour) in CMC Vellore from that particular time my mother had made a promise that she will not sing a single song in future because as i'm the only child of my parents, so all can understand that how much love i use to get from my parents. So, my mother's dream her passion all she sacrificed for me. That is my mother.

My mother again took an attempt she had a dream in her heart that my son, i might be a singer but unfortunately my grand father told that as because i had a brain tumour operation so he suggest that please don't tell him to do rewaj i didn't know , my grandfather told that he has a operation in his brain so the rewaj might hamper him. So, my rewaj stopped from that time and i was very happy but when i looks back i can see my mother broken heart. My mother thought that she properly can't full fill her dream and her passion she thinks it might be fulfilled by his son but again destiny. My mother life is about sacrifice.

After 16 years on 2010 when i'm studing my B.com (hons) 3rd year doctor again detected that my two kidneys were damage and its really true. I am a kidney transplant patient my father had given me his kidney to save my life.I am from a middle class family due to my operation and all that's my mother didn't operate he "gall bladder stone" its all for me, during the session of "heamo dialysis" i lost my right eye due to retina detachment it was operated thrice under two months.

So, as i had mention above that i'm a single child of my parents that means during the "dialysis" session my mother cries day and night she did not knew what to do looses hr self confidence, at that time i was only twenty years old and we didn't have that sufficient money also. Thanks to my parents they are almighty for me , my told she will give me her kidney but she can't because she was also a cerebral patient with high blood sugar level so doctor denies then my father had given his kidney and my kidney transplantation happened in (IPGMER & SSKM) hospital kolkata on 16/07/2013. My mother use to sit all the night outside the hospital its doesn't matter it is heavily. Really i am very fortunate that i had got such a lovely mother she was just not my mother she was my best friend also, can anyone tell me can i meet her in this life. Now, i and my father are in the home, i think if she was not their with me i cannot complete my "Masters of Commerce".

Here is the end of  a decade of my mother  ,right now i have also some burden regarding my health conditions, all of you can understand that.

 So, it's is my humble request to you all that please support me give lots of love , bless me.

🙏 Stay safe and bless me 🙏